Love affairs before marriage; what are the benefits? Many girls wonder if they should agree to an experience with a beloved man before marriage. Or maybe it’s not worth it; what if he dumps me entirely after I decline? I took this stuff for a reason. One of my friends “nodded” me with this question to the extent that I wanted to comment on this issue and make some serious arguments. She finally met her “one prince,” with whom she fell in love. Everything seemed bland, but she had never had anyone about intimacy before. She was brought up in a proper family with average values. She’s 25.
Nowadays, you can’t find regular guys with fire during the day. Still, she’s generally the girl who doesn’t like aimlessly “roaming” around nightclubs in search of adventure. Suddenly, a guy who almost immediately confessed his love to her was just taken by surprise and, after nearly a few weeks, he proposed marriage. Everything would be fine, but he started demanding intimacy, which alerted this girl. Now, on the forum, they write that they say that in our 21st century, they do not look at this, and love relationships before marriage do not affect other marriage relationships in any way. Have you ever wondered, dear girls, that this is a kind of roulette? Either he will “die and go,” or throughout his life, he will blame that “it is not known who and how many you had before me.”
I do not claim that there are cases when people meet for, for example, 5 years, get married, have children, and everything is fine with them in the future. But the facts often tell a different story. On the forum, they write that they say that in our 21st century, they do not look at this, and love relationships before marriage do not affect other marriage relationships in any way. Have you ever wondered, dear girls, that this is a kind of roulette? Either he will “die and go,” or throughout his life, he will blame that “it is not known who and how many you had before me.” I do not claim that there are cases when people meet for, for example, 5 years, get married, have children, and everything is fine with them in the future. But the facts often tell a different story. On the forum, they write that they say that in our 21st century, they do not look at this, and love relationships before marriage do not affect other marriage relationships in any way. Have you ever wondered, dear girls, that this is a kind of roulette? Either he will “die and go,” or throughout his life, he will blame that “it is not known who and how many you had before me.” I do not claim that there are cases when people meet for, for example, 5 years, get married, have children, and everything is fine with them in the future. But the facts often tell a different story. Or, throughout his life, he will rebuke that “it is not known who and how many you had before me.” I do not claim that there are cases when people meet for, for example, 5 years, get married, have children, and everything is fine with them in the future. But the facts often tell a different story. Or, throughout his life, he will rebuke that “it is not known who and how many you had before me.” I do not claim that there are cases when people meet for, for example, 5 years, get married, have children, and everything is fine with them in the future. But the facts often tell a different story.
As for the girl, she rejected him. Not because he sticks to the “old basics,” not because he doesn’t “love” the boy enough to give himself up for him, but simply because he respects himself and his future husband. This guy, of course, wanted only one thing – love. As he later admitted, to achieve his “goal,” he introduced her to his parents and even promised to get married. What if it had gone differently? Is it possible, say many girls, that love affairs before marriage have such a detrimental effect on other relationships? So let’s put all the facts “on the shelves.”
What does the bed lead to before the wedding?
- Intimacy before marriage often leads to a breach. Research data tells us repeatedly that couples who have intercourse break up at a desirable rate. The reason is simple – after satisfying a man’s love needs, his desire for marriage becomes weaker and weaker. Once partners are freed from the biological force of love that attracts them, they are less willing to continue the relationship’s logical conclusion. Someone just once broke the desire to solve someone else’s riddle. And if a rupture were to happen here, it would be much more complex than if everything happened the other way.
- Intimate relationships before marriage “disrupt” the understanding of how love differs from falling in love. You can love, live and breathe with just one person without getting physical satisfaction. Or you can maintain the love, keep your partner and not deprive yourself. Start communicating spiritually; find each other with your soul, not your body. Start being interested in something together. After all, the future spouse should be both a lover and a friend. Ask yourself a question, will he stay with me when I get sick or get into a difficult life situation, or run out of money, or will I start to put up with his brain with my character?
- A relationship before marriage can lead to an unwanted pregnancy. It remains to look at the statistics – 33% of girls who made the bed before their wedding become pregnant. Unfortunately, more and more mothers are raising children alone in the world and not only because of premarital intimacy, including many who stay with their children after marriage.
- Frequent change in partners increases the risk of developing uterine cancer. It is due to antigens in sperm, which disrupt its development when they enter the uterus at a young age or too often. There is a possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, so it is essential to know how to protect yourself with consensual sex.
- Love affairs before marriage lead to disrespect from one partner to another. Since a man allows himself more freedom with a woman, his intentions are not serious at all. Remember, girls, if your position is dear to him, then the man with you will be highly restrained, and it does not matter what “he needs” and what he “can’t stand.” If he loves, he can and will wait until the wedding. Self-respect is paramount.
Thank you so your beloved man would say what gold he got!